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 The Official Newsletter of the American Seminar Leaders Association July 6th, 2004 
In this issue
  • Message from the ASLA President
  • FREE SEMINAR PREVIEW!
  • 11 Tips On Client Loyalty
  • Articles from our CSLs "The Power of Words"
  • 18 Ways to Use the Word "FREE" in Your Ads
  • How to Assure Business Success

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    Welcome to ASLA, an organization dedicated to seminar leaders, speakers, trainers and coaches.

    Our mission is to train those interested in becoming a seminar leader or a public speaker and make them some of the most successful, powerful and inspiring presenters in the world.

    If your goal is to make a difference in other people's lives, ASLA is here for you. Become part of our community of successful seminar leaders and public speakers.

    Your success is our success and we are dedicated to it!

    Seminarily Yours,
    June Davidson
    ASLA President

    Message from the ASLA President

    "Plan ways and means of making use of new concepts and techniques. Never be afraid to try out new ideas" says Paul J. Meyer, Success Motivation International Foundation.

    ASLA's concept of putting together one day workshops for the Business Community is now a reality. This is our platform for our CSLs to do their seminars.

    The kick-off date is July 21st with "Business Partnering" Workshop.

    We have scheduled "Free Publicity", "Customer Service", "Writing a Business Plan", "Sales and Marketing", "Telephone Techniques", "Internet Marketing". Many more coming soon!

    Call us at 800-801-1886 or email at info@asla.com to become a featured speaker.

    The Annual "Seminars at Sea" Cruise will be the day after Thanksgiving and we have a great panel of CSLs presenting "Fit, Fabulous and Fun".

    Karen Morse, CSL, CAC - "Intuitive Eating"

    Sheryl Piland, CSL, CAC -"Your Perfect Image"

    Karen McCarter, CSL, CAC and Geri Rouse, CSL, CAC - "Make-up Made Easy"

    "Make a decision and take action. When you decide to make use of an idea, take the appropriate steps to make your goal a reality." said Paul.

    Please send us your questions at info@asla.com

    FREE SEMINAR PREVIEW!
    Thinking about becoming a Seminar Leader or a Public Speaker?

    Do you want to start your own part-time or full-time Seminar Business?

    ASLA is the right organization for you. We are a complete support system for seminar leaders, public speakers, trainers, coaches.

    Come to our FREE preview and review our products, meet our staff and network with other people who share your passion about seminars.

    Learn how to market your business with the use of seminars.

    Attend a free preview session and learn specific strategies and techniques that will enable you to make money and achieve your professional goals.
     

    Join us Wednesday, August 4th between 11:00am - 1:00pm at the University City Club in Pasadena, 175 N. Oakland Ave.

    Reserve your seat now!
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    11 Tips On Client Loyalty
    1. Let them know if every way possible that you care about their business and profit.
    2. Start a tip sheet for helpful items that are timely.
    3. If you read something that pertains to their business world, clip and mail to them.
    4. Call them and give a personal introduction to someone you know who might need their services.
    5. Become the best net worker for your clients and ask them for information to give out.
    6. Write personal notes of appreciation.
    7. Send clients your free newsletter.
    8. Reward them when they give you a personal introduction to a possible client.
    9. Write articles for their association or other publications.
    10. Contact on special dates-especially one-year anniversary with their long business with you.
    11. If they are local invite them for lunch or coffee- make it worthwhile by introducing them to a possible new client.
    Articles from our CSLs "The Power of Words"
    by Dr. Joyce H. Brown, CSL, CAC

    Words have tremendous power and can build or destroy relationships. Once they are spoken, they are like arrows and cannot be recalled. One of life's greatest challenges is to harness the tongue!

    Words can hit like a fist and hurt, or they can soothe, comfort, guide and teach. How we use words to hurt or help another is our choice - their reaction is not. Words are powerful tools for influencing others and can peace, lead, and direct thoughts.

    Words lead our thinking and form mental pictures. As an example, what would come to your mind if I told you not to think about a pink elephant with yellow ears and big green spots all over him. I told you NOT to think about that pink elephant, and you did. In fact, the more I would tell you not to think about the big pink elephant with yellow ears and big green spots, the more vivid picture of him would come into your mind. Even if you forced yourself to think of something else, you had to think about the big pink elephant first in order to know what it was you were not supposed to think about.

    Our words create attitudes and mental pictures for others. Our attitudes toward other people, and our thoughts create our mental pictures which greatly influences the words we speak to others. We can attract others to us or push them away by our words. Therefore, it is important to choose our words carefully. WORDS can have a strong positive or negative effect - all by themselves.

    Words to avoid for a better relationship.

    A book of rules include the following list of words to make a point. However, when they are used in conversations, the words are usually perceived as being harsh. They may automatically set a negative polarity in the other person and tend to take away the person's own power and free-will choice. Some of these words act as commands; others diminish any exceptions to a differing opinion. Often, these words can make the other person feel "cornered" and may be detrimental to relationship.

    SHOULD, OUGHT, MUST, HAVE TO, ALL, EVERY, ALWAYS, NEVER, TRY, BUT, CAN'T, DON'T, IMPOSSIBLE.

    Replacement words The following words and word combinations are "fluffy words". They expand parameters. They tend to empower the other person and encourage them to search for options. They are also good words to improve relationships. These words are very useful in teaching as they lead people into thinking and becoming more self-disciplined.

    WHAT IF, HOW, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL, MAY, YOU MAY WANT TO, PERHAPS YOU COULD, PERHAPS, CURIOUS, WONDER, SO, AND.

    If I understand your correctly. (one of the most effective phrases to encourage others to think and talk!)

    Six important words: I am sorry and I love you

    More important than what we say is what someone perceives we said. We are all still learning, and we are all at our own level of growth. Others react and learn from our words. Our words and their tone can help create more harmony in our life, in our home and in our relationships. We can reap heavenly and miraculous results with our words.

    18 Ways to Use the Word "FREE" in Your Ads
    1. The word "FREE" is still the most powerful,... the most often used word in advertising today! If you have anything to offer FREE to others, you can use this powerful word! It pulls orders better than any other word! Here's some ways to use it:

    2. ONE thing FREE when you buy Another! This can be the way to get people to order from you! A second one is FREE, with the purchase of the first!

    3. Buy 2 - get the third FREE! This can be used to get MORE and LARGER orders! Giving away ONE, with the purchase of two others!

    4. Fourth FREE, with purchase of Three! Tire stores and Publishers offer a 4th FREE, when you buy Three others at regular price!

    5. FREE "Trial Size"! Give away one that's smaller than usual, hoping that people will LIKE what you give them, and want to buy more!

    6. FREE Bedframe, with purchase of A King Set! Lots of mattress stores use this type of ad! Offering some sort of "premium" FREE with purchase!

    7. FREE Introductory Class! This usually is offered with purchase of a Computer; Microwave oven; etc. (Free Memberships in clubs, etc!)

    8. Use it FREE for 30 days! Allow people to use something; to use your product or service, FREE, for a limited time! (Enticing them to order!)

    9. FREE Service with each purchase! This is used often by Pizza companies, and cleaning services. Free delivery; Free Folding; etc.

    10. FREE Interest for 3 months! Many loan companies and others offer this to entice customers to buy from them! It's delaying something for a time!

    11. Fast service, or it's FREE! It's Hot, or it's Free! (7- 11 offers Hot coffee). Denny's says "10 Minutes, or it's FREE!" Customers come to see!

    12. 2nd Topping is FREE, with purchase of a Large Pizza! That about says it all! (Free Extras; Free Colors; Free Inks; No extra charge at Printers!!)

    13. FREE Details! This is used by a LOT of advertisers, who sell products by mail! Let 'em know you'll send information FREE, just to write and ask!

    14. Buy 2 ads, get a 3rd (or 4th) FREE! This is another way to get Long Term advertisers! They get FREE ads, with every 3rd or 4th they buy.

    15. FREE Commission Circulars! Many Prime Sources are willing to offer you FREE circulars (some for postage) to obtain dealers! Free Dealer Info!!

    16. FREE Typesetting, with purchase of an ad! Publishers offer this FREE service to obtain new advertisers! (Why pay extra for it, if it's FREE?)

    17. FREE Catalog! Many companies send out Catalogs FREE to anyone who writes and asks for one! More sales result! (Free Downline Recruiting!)

    18. FREE Sample Copy! Some companies will be willing to send you ONE FREE to entice you to buy more later! (Free Cassette; Free Introductory Video, etc!)
     
    How to Assure Business Success
    « Use stories during public speaking engagements to illustrate points and state the point in addition to telling the story. Always make your story relevant to the subject at hand.

    « Select stories to match the intelligence, experience, occupation, and age of the audience as well as the nature of the occasion. You don't want to talk over the heads of the audience members and you don't want to bore them with stories that are too simple.

    « Space stories at intervals to provide a change of pace and to reemphasize your message. Remember from Chapter 5 the listening pattern you want to create in the audience.

    « Tell about your troubles, stupidity, or ignorance. People like you when you use self-effacing humor because they see themselves mirrored in your weaknesses.

    « Eliminate inconsequential detail. Use the fewest number of words that convey the message in an interesting fashion. Writing the story out will help you see words that can be eliminated without hurting the story.

    « Keep your humorous stories short during your public speaking engagements. The size of the laugh is inversely proportional to the number of words used to get to the punchline.
     

    Rule: The longer the story, the funnier it must be.

    « You must make jokes and humorous stories believable up to a point.

    « Use factual, specific details that the audience can relate to, i.e., say the brand name like Lots-o-Suds rather than a laundry detergent.

    « The more truthful and specific the story sounds the more your audience will get caught up in what you say.

    « Specify the location of a joke or story. If your story takes place in a restaurant say, "I was at Jerry's Sub Shop in Rockville, Maryland, the other day." This gives the audience something concrete to think about, which makes them more involved mentally.

    « When crafting a story, use people, places, and things the audience knows. When the audience is familiar with the elements in your story, they will become even more involved. As soon as you mention the company cafeteria, their minds race to the cafeteria to meet you and find out what happens. However, don't use humor that is too inside. Only a few people will understand it.

    « Emphasize the adjectives and verbs in your stories to make them sound more interesting. Try it. Look around where you are right now and describe anything you want. Really put punch behind the adjectives and verbs and see how your description comes to life. Use specific and interesting verbs and adjectives. Say I was exhausted, not I was tired. Say, her head was nodding and drooping, not her head was down.

    « Learn your stories. In a normal speech if you forget the exact thing you wanted to say, you can improvise and go on. But if you leave out an important detail in a story or if you accidentally give away the climax too soon, you have a mess on your hands. I tell a story at least 30 times in private before I'll test it in front of an audience.

    « Use true facts from your own life. This makes it easier for you to tell the story because you lived it and you can learn it faster too. Also, someone else can't steal your story as easily if all the facts have to do with your life.

    « Use appropriate emotional language to hook the listener. (Refer to this website's "Emotional Lanquage" article for reference.)

    « Construct a humorous story so that it concludes abruptly with a climactic word. Don't utter another syllable or sound after this climactic word. You might squelch the laughter you worked so hard to get. Exception: Some stories get laughter all along the way.

    « More of these stories are used by humorists who are expected to be funny all the time.

    « Work out different lengths of the same story to fit different time segments. (Yes, I've snuck a Don't in the Do's section.) Don't memorize your stories word- for-word. This way you won't feel forced to say every word, every time you tell the story. You can change the length of the story easily by adding or subtracting detail.

    Super Trick: Have a quotation ready that makes the same point as your story. If your time is shortened, you can cut out a story and replace it with a quote.

    « Slant your story to the intended audience. When telling a story to a group of executives you would probably want to use different language and emphasis than if you were telling the same story to a group of secretaries. Change nonessential elements of the story to make a better connection.

    « Use terms like Imagine this, Have you ever had an experience where ... Let me take you with me to ... to draw the audience into your stories.

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